Archive - October, 2009

Shoup Family Surprise (and Site Relaunch)

To publicly debut the relaunch of the Elevating a Generation blog — re-designed from it’s original created intent (formerly the student ministry blog, which has now been moved to elevationgeneration.org)… we are making a very important and special family announcement.  Just watch…

How’s THAT for a big comeback?! :D

Anyhoo… I’m still working on the look and feel here, but I intend to eventually move all my family posts, personal music ministry updates, and ministry/resource articles (also published at sites like YouthMinBlog.com, YMToday.com, Foursquare.org, and YouthSpecialties.com) here (for those who want to read them but don’t necessarily want to subscribe to other RSS feeds).  This will basically become my personal blog site while elevationgeneration.org will continue to be the student ministry site that it is.

It’s Not About Us

Urban GardenerTeaching teens to worship…

It seems like this is something that several youth workers struggle with. How do I get my teenagers to get past that “all eyes are on me” culture/attitude that they are swimming in to the “all eyes on Jesus” mindset that we so long for them to grasp?

I think it comes in time with frequent reminders from that worship is NOT ABOUT US. It is about Him.

If we can stop getting students thinking about themselves and/or the person standing next to them during our Wednesday night rally services, that is a BIG first step.

Time after time I’ve seen students enter in to no-holds-barred worship when the “atmosphere is right”: when the place is filled with teenagers lost in passionate worship… when the music is loud and the band is tight… when the lights are set… and when the smoke machine is on. The camp atmosphere… where it’s hard NOT to enter in. You know what I mean.

But I want to challenge our students to remember that God is worthy of ALL of our praise even when the group is small, when the music isn’t on, when they are not in the church building, and even when they don’t FEEL like it.

Let’s encourage our students to get to a place in their lives where they so comfortable in worshiping God that when they encounter a situation where it is hard, that worship is already a part of who they are and it comes naturally.

One more thing: let’s step outside of ourselves as leaders and lead the way. Some practical thoughts on student worship next week…

YS

This post was originally posted at YouthSpecialties.com; follow the discussion there or start a new one here.

What’s New in the Network?

I’ve written about the youth ministry network that I’m involved with here in Western side of South Dakota a couple of different times. As a result, I get asked from time to time, “What’s happening?” I’ll share what we’ve been up to lately… see if it sparks any ideas for your local network.

* Every month we continue to meet for coffee and breakfast on the first Wednesday every month. I value these times of catching up and hearing stories about what other youth leaders are doing, not only in their ministries but in their everyday lives. These guys are more than business peers. We have become friends with the common interest and goal of reaching out to students in our region. These relationships help me grow, encourage me, and offer so much insight into the often challenging world of student ministry.

* Last month, one of our female youth leaders, shared some of her wisdom on interacting with senior pastors. Regretfully, I was out of town for this discussion (at a district meeting), but I’ve heard nothing but good reports from those who were there. I’m so thankful for the ladies who bring so much to the table in our network. Us guys can be really clueless sometimes. ;)

The month before that, we read “Sacred Space” together and talked about all the different ways that we can create “multisensory worship experiences” in student ministry. The guy who led this discussion in a youth pastor in a small community that is about an hour away! He’s faithful to come almost every month. His name is Clay; follow him on Twitter here.

What’s next? We picked the book “Shift”, by Brian Haynes, as a discussion starter on the topic of involving parents in the process of the spiritual development of their children. I get to lead that discussion. (Pray for me!)

* We’ve had a few guests visit and share with us about parachurch opportunities in our region. In the last few months, we’ve had suicide prevention/information representative share and also, a guy from the local F.C.A. came in to get us pumped up about a new venture at Rapid City’s Central High School campus. It’s always great to see them wanting to get local pastors involved in what they’re doing.

* Of course, in September, a bunch of us rallied together to help make this year’s See You at the Pole event meaningful for area students. We tried to make sure that as many schools as possible were blanketed with adult support and we planned a big, community-wide rally that evening to help launch students into the new school year. Several students made decisions for Christ that night!

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Clay, our resident band-booking guru, also hosted a great concert in Belle Fourche that was opened up to those in our region.

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I’m praying for you and your local network of youth leaders today. I pray that you find hope, restoration, encouragement, resources and more in the community and relationships that can be found and nurtured there.

YS

This post was originally posted at YouthSpecialties.com; follow the discussion there or start a new one here.

Delirious? Farewell Tour

Delirious? — on my top list of fave rock’n'roll bands of all time — announced their farewell tour a couple months ago. I saw that they were coming to Colorado Springs, so I checked around to see if a couple of guys would be interested in going with me to help defray the costs and do the “bro-trip-experience” with me.

Well, it turns out that Brent, Mike, and Ken were up for it! We hit the road Wednesday morning and drove the 8-hour drive… it was TOTALLY a blast! Such a great concert and such an awesome time — including tons of laughs with the guys. Here’s some highlights from our trip…

Delirious? truly did deliver. I’ve always said that I wanted to see them live and they were absolutely awe-inspiring. What an incredible concert AND worship experience! So sad to see them say “goodbye”.

We had the opportunity to visit with our mutual friend, Lion Mendoza, on Thursday morning — another highlight of the trip. We all love that guy.

Of course, a stop at the Apple Store and watching Ken get a little loopy after taking some sinus medication was fun, too!

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Pastor “Daddy”: Juggling Ministry and Fatherhood

YS

This post was originally posted at YouthSpecialties.com; follow the discussion there or start a new one here.

Okay, let me have a proud-Daddy moment. These are my four girls…

Give me just a second… (wipes tears from my eyes) …okay. Phew!

These four girls are the most important students that I will ever minister to in my life. Why? Because they are mine.

  • I never want them to feel like they are competing for my attention with the students in our ministry.
  • I never want them to feel like they don’t have a father because he’s always at the office or busy doing the “work of the ministry”.
  • I never want them to feel like they have to live up to some holier-than-thou standard just because I wear the title “pastor” in front of my name.

My dreams for them are as big as God. My desire is to see each one of them to live their lives to the fullest! And I want to be a BIG part of their lives… not just on the sidelines.

Is it a struggle to juggle an active, full-time student ministry with fatherhood? Yes. No question about it. That’s why my family has been and will continue to be a priority in my life. These girls are my treasures and a God-given heritage (Psalm 127:3).

It’s a conscious choice. Here’s a few things I’ve done up front to safeguard my relationship and time with my family:

  • I reserve time every evening for my family. A no-brainer… but I’ve seen too many youth workers do just the opposite (reserving time every evening for student ministry programming / hang-time instead (with disastrous results).
  • I talk publicly about how important family time is to me. How can people honor it if they don’t know it exists?
  • I practice the art of saying “no” when it comes to conflicts in my family calendar. Dates that are important to the family are more important than anything I can put on the youth calendar.
  • I do my best to plan ahead so I’m not having to spend late nights / weekends at the office. As they say, “Fail to plan… plan to fail.”

It may sound like I don’t care much about student ministry, but that’s really not the case at all. What I do at Elevate Student Ministries and the teenagers that I care for there are very close to my heart. My passion is there and I absolutely LOVE my calling and the church family I have the privilege of serving. I just don’t want it to take the place of my FIRST calling, which is my lovely wife and beautiful girls.

With careful planning and attention to what really matters most, I believe that I can excel — and even be excellent — at both callings: pastor and “Daddy”.

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